My Tapping

   Experiences   

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RECEIVED A SERIOUS DIAGNOSIS:

 

If you have recently received bad news from your doctor and are struggling to know what to do next to how to handle the emotions around that, I have extensive experience is working in this area.   We first deal with the emotions that you're struggling with now.  Then we take a look at any past traumas or stuck energy that might underlie this illness.  We explore fears and negative beliefs about illness, family history, childhood issues and much more.  Our goal is to clear out as much as possible to give your body back it's power to heal.  Our bodies are constantly striving to keep us in balance.  Each time we tap, we clear more space for balance.

 

LOSS OF LOVED ONE:

 

If you have lost someone close to you and feel completely swamped with grief, able to barely function,  you could benefit from working with me to help you make the grieving process much more 'bearable.'  I've had clients come to me that could barely make it through their days.  Their jobs were in jeapardy and their families were being abandoned because they simply could barely move one foot in front of the other.  In just one session of about two hours, we had completely begun to turn this around.  A couple more sessions and they were back, living their lives.  One particular client had two small children who really needed their Mother.  She had contacted me three times since I've worked with her.  Each time to tell me of new and exciting things that were happening in her life after the work she did with me.  The most recent contact was to let me know that she had found the love of her life who was also a very good Father to her two little children.  Nothing makes me any happier than to see someone be able to take control of their lives.

 

 

RELATIONSHIP RESCUE:

 

Perhaps you are struggling to keep your marriage going or just need to become more clear on whether to make it work or break it off?  I can help you clear your mind and emotions so that you have more clear thinking and are able to see the road ahead and make the right choices for you and your partner and family.

 

I love working with couples, first one-to-one, then having them tap face-to-face; sometimes, because of tapping, they are only just, for the first time, really 'hearing' each other.

 

If you have children, we can work to help make it easier for them to deal with whatever happens and we'll work with you, as parents, to become more aware of how to help them get through this in the best and healthiest possible way.

 

HELP WITH CAREER ISSUES:

 

Perhaps you are hating your job, wanting a change, needing to be clear on what to do next?  Or maybe you need help in clearing the energy so as to attract the job that you are wanting.  Or perhaps you have a big interview coming up and want help in feeling more confident and prepared?  I've worked with many clients who were wanting to attract a job, or have a big interview that they were panicking about.  Tapping makes all the difference.

 

DEPRESSION:

 

Depression is when you feel as if you are sucked deep into this black hole and don't know how to get out.  There can be sadness, grief, frustration and anger all layered underneath depression.  Let's tap to help you peel away those layers, find out where this originated and help you get back into the game of life.

For one client, we worked two or three hours to clear out about five past events where she'd felt helpless and hopeless.  Once those had been tapped and cleared, she transformed before our eyes.  Her clouds of depression just lifted and were permanently gone.

For other clients, it's been a much more complicated road than that.  We tap and take it step by step, as if moving up a ladder to better and better feelings and more strength.  We help them find new ways of perceiving and handling what is coming at them in life.

 

SELLING YOUR HOME:

 

Believe it or not, Tapping to energetically let go of your home can greatly enhance it's success rate of being sold.  You may think you're ready to leave it, but once you begin tapping, you realize there is something that you are unconsciously hanging onto that is acutally blocking the sale from moving forward.  Let's tap and explore from all angles until you feel completely sure and ready to turn your home over to the best buyers, then notice how quickly the energy begins to shift and 'coincidences' begin to happen!

 

TAPPING WITH CHILDREN:

 

Children take to tapping so quickly and easily.  You might not even get through a whole round of tapping before their 'problem' has shifted.  And it's because of that that it is important to catch the child when they are 'in' the particular emotion.   

 

TAPPING 'FOR' YOUR CHILDREN:

 

Especially with children who are under the age of three, it can be most effective to tap WITH the parents, whist the child is playing in the same room.  I've done this many time, every effectively and stumbled upon this technique quite accidently several years ago.

It's been the most effective way to work with them.  Several times, whilst doing this, the child will pretend as though they are playing and not paying attention, but every so often, they will just suddenly 'add' something to the words you are using.  In one particular case, when we hit a core issue, the child actually really reacted with this little hysterical laugh as if to say:  "Oh, I've been found out."  The issue with the child changed overnight. 

 

TAPPING WITH TEENAGERS:

 

I love workting with teenagers.  You can bond or build rapport with them very quickly because they are so appreciative of finally feeling Understood.  In fact, feeling understood is one of the real magical benefits of EFT for children. 

There have been studies done with young offenders who keep ending up in jail.  When asked what went wrong in their lives,  great percentage of them replied, "No one ever listened to me when I was growing up." 

 

I was working with a teenager one day who had kept getting in trouble both at home and at school.  The teachers kept telling him that he was the one instigating the trouble, that it was his fault.  He kept arguing that it was not him.  As he sat down to tell me what was wrong, I got him tapping, then began to repeat his words back to him:  "Even though they say it's my fault but it's really their fault.  They started it and noone can see that or will believe me."   At that moment, this young man lifted his head up so that his eyes met mine and he almost shouted with glee:  "Yeah, THAT'S IT.  That's RIGHT!"     He was so excited that it felt like I truly understood.  All I was doing was repeating back to him his words.  

 

Even if that's all parents ever did when there was an issue with a child, repeat back whatever the child says before going any further with any lectures or anything, it could create miracles.  What a difference that might make in a child's life.  Most parents are trying to 'right-fight' with their child.   ('I' am the parent and I am right.)   Children just need their feelings acknowledged but do not know how to ask for that.  We, as parents, are unknowingly trying to tell them how they SHOULD feel.   

 

TAPPING WITH PARENTS:

 

I KNOW it is not easy being a parent.  Not only have I raised two children of my own, but I also helped my second husband finish raising his four sons.  Anything that I can do to help make that job easier for parents makes me happy.  I only wish I'd had this tapping tool when I was raising my children. 

Tapping can help you form a closer bond with your children so that they feel more understood and you feel more connected rather than separated.  By teaching parents how to tap with their children, they can help them in so many ways...with their fears, phobias, homework issues, test anxieties, girlfriend and boyfriend fears and issues and so much more.  Just imagine having the use of this powerful tool to help you strengthen your family bonds! 

 

TAPPING WITH FAMILIES:

 

I've had some exciting things happen whilst working with families.   Talk about bonding!  I've even had parents ask to tap with each other whilst the children are present.  In that situation, I will have the children tap on bears 'for' their parents whilst the parents tap and talk to each other, with first one tapping and talking while listening, then the other doing the same.  Imagine what you are teachng your children when they see you work out problems in this way!   And kids LOVE to be little helpers.

 

It's natural when children hear their parents fighting or having problems, to feel like it's their fault, that somehow they must have done something wrong.  So imagine what it will do for them to be able to tap to HELP their parents. 

 

 

STRESS and PHOBIAS

Stress is one of the biggest factors in most illnesses.  When the body is in 'fight-and-flight mode, all the energy is reserved for getting to safety.  Therefore, there is no energy left for natural healing.  Releasing stress, frees up the energy so that the body can do what it is naturally meant to do, heal itself. 

 

PANIC ATTACKS:

Have helped people who were having severe panic attacks.  They were already being seen by a doctor, psychologist and counselor, but had seen no improvement until we did some Intensive Tapping sessions and taught the clients to do some 'homework' tapping as well.  

 

TAPPING WITH SOMEONE WHO WAS WORRIED ABOUT A LOVED ONE WHO WAS SERIOUSLY ILL:

Amazing results.  What was even more exciting, was that the client, in a coma at the time, KNEW this tapping was being done for her! 

 

 

AND MANY MORE ISSUES AS WELL.